sports benefits

Girls who played sports in high school are far more likely to gain a college diploma than their peers, according to a recent study by researchers at Brigham Young University.  Girls in the study were 73% more likely to complete a bachelor’s degree within six years of graduating from high school if they had been athletes.  And, it did not matter if they continued to play sports in college or not.  The female students who had been athletes said that playing sports taught them to persevere.  Sports kept them grounded, kept them out of trouble, and put them in a group that had the same mind-set.

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dallas emerges as among most gay-friendly cities

Dallas has become one of the most gay-friendly cities in the US according to Time Magazine.  It boasts the ninth-largest concentration of same-sex couples in the country and has a lesbian city sheriff, gay county judge, and gay district clerk.  Dallas City Councilman Ed Oakley, who is openly gay, carried 40% of the vote in the election for Dallas mayor in June and thus had a chance of being the first gay mayor of a large US city. 
The increasing gay friendliness reflects a rise of more liberal attitudes in Dallas.  Gays have gentrified once-crumbling neighborhoods while the city’s booming cultural scene has been a magnet for many gay and lesbian professionals. 
But some of the old, conservative Dallas remains.  President Bush is expected to move there once he leaves the White House. 

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forum reflects gays’ clout

The August 9th Los Angeles presidential forum on issues important to gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender Americans showcases the status gay votes and money have earned in the Democratic Party.  The fact that no Republican candidates accepted the invitation illustrates the continued controversy that gay issues cause them.  And two Republican contenders, Romney and Guiliani have pivoted away from their previous stands favoring gay rights as they seek the nomination. 
The Democratic field’s support of gay rights is similar—all the major candidates favor civil unions for gay couples and repeal of the military’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy against openly gay service members.  Surveys suggest gay people have higher incomes than the general population and are more likely to make political contributions. 
Still, the Democrats’ courtship of gay voters only goes so far.  None of the leading Democrats supports gay marriage rights, reflecting fear of an issue Republicans used effectively in 2004 to put them on the defensive and mobilize conservative voters.

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hate crimes?

by moc
At a meeting of gay and gay-friendly progressives the other night, I heard a nice young gay man wonder why we need hate crimes legislation.  Hate is hate and crimes are crimes, and why combine the two?  He implied that he thinks that seeking hate-crime legislation makes us seem like whiney-babies asking for our mommies to take care of us. 
So I’ve been thinking about it:  Hmm.  Whiney babies.  Would that be maybe – Emmett Till, who was mutilated, lynched, and burned for no other reason than he was a young black man who possibly said “hi” to a white woman?   Or… James Byrd,  who fifty years later was dragged through the streets of Jasper Texas until he was decapitated, for no other reason than he was a black man alone on a country road?  Or Matthew Shephard, who was hung from a North Dakota fence to die, for no other reason than he was gay and trusting? 
Now, it is true that murder is murder, and a vicious murder will, these days, be tried as such, with a nice vicious penalty applied, whether it is designated a hate crime or not.  I think this was our nice young man’s point.  However, the reason that murders of this sort must be specifically identified as crimes of hate is to allow our leaders, both secular and religious, to lead us all in a spirited denunciation of the attitudes that engendered them. 
Far more numerous than hate murders are the racist graffiti, the swastikas painted on synagogue walls, the desecration of Jewish cemeteries, the beatings nearly unto death of interracial couples and homosexuals, and on and on; and it is for this kind of activity that the enhanced punishment accorded by hate crimes statutes is intended.  Vandalism intended to intimidate an entire group of people should carry a higher penalty than overturning trash cans on Halloween.  Violence intended to spark fear in the hearts of an entire group of people, intended to dampen a group’s feeling of being at home in their own country and in their own skin, is a great crime and should be acknowledged and treated as such. 
Hate crimes are, purely and simply, a form of terrorism.  They are used to intimidate an entire class of people, and they are very effective.  As an editorial in the Washington Post in May of this year said,“…crimes that target someone because of his or her race or sexual orientation are more than an offense against that individual. They are crimes that terrorize whole communities.”
I’ll close with a quote and a couple of questions.  The quote is from the website of an organization not usually considered wimpy, sissy, or whiney:  the Federal Bureau of Investigation  (www.fbi.gov).  “Crimes of hatred and prejudice—from lynchings to cross burnings to vandalism of synagogues—are a sad fact of American history, but the term “hate crime” did not enter the nation’s vocabulary until the 1980s, when emerging hate groups like the Skinheads launched a wave of bias-related crime. The FBI began investigating what we now call hate crimes as far back as the early 1920s, when we opened our first Ku Klux Klan case. Today, we remain dedicated to working with state and local authorities to prevent these crimes and to bring to justice those who commit them.”
The questions:  Seeing as there already exist Hate Crime laws at the Federal level and in most states, including Oklahoma; and that they usually cover, at a minimum, race, color, religion, ancestry, and national origin; and considering that anti-gay hate crimes make up about one third of all reported hate crimes, why on earth would we not want to add sexual and gender orientation to these laws?  And,  how on earth does doing this make us whiney-babies?

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september events

PFLAG OKC Tues Sept 4 Church of the Open Arms 7 pm
OGLPC Meeting Monday Sept 10 Neighborhood Alliance 1236 NW 36th 7:30 pm
General Voting for OK County Commissioner Tues September 11
PFLAG Norman Thursday Sept 13 St Stephen’s Church 7 pm
Herland Supper Club Sat Sept 8 TGI Fridays 4239 NW Expressway 5:30 pm
Herland Scrabble Saturday Sept 15 2 pm
Herland Board Meeting  Sunday Sept 16 4 pm everyone welcome
Herland Craft Day Saturday Sept 22 2—5 pm
McPride Family Picnic Saturday Sept 22 Chadick Park McAlester
Queer Queens of Qomedy Saturday Sept 22 Ft Worth 8 pm
Herland Voice Mailing Wednesday Sept 26 6 pm
AIDS Walk Sunday Sept 30 Myriad Gardens registration 12:30 stepoff 2 pm
Center Cinema Free films every Friday at Tulsa Equality Center 7 pm

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