Women’s History Month and Video Night

by MOC

August is Women’s Herstory Month. It’s a long month, 31 days, unlike Black History Month, which is February, the shortest month of the year, a fact wryly noted by African Americans and their allies; who are somewhat bemused at being presented with such an easy joke, such a great straight line: Yep, American blacks get 28 days; short-changed as usual.

Ironic as that might be, in August we’re looking elsewhere, and we’re celebrating that women, all colors and sexual orientations, get 31 big days. So is it women’s history month? Or wimmin’s herstory month? Or womyn’s history month? Whatever, in August we are celebrating womyn/wimmin/women. Officially it is Women’s History Month.

On Saturday, August 27, we will celebrate Womyn’s Herstory Month with a Video Night celebration at Herland at 7 pm. We will show three or more videos: the short film Votes for Women (telling of the campaign which basically made women citizens — no, not first class citizens, we’re still working on that one), the even shorter 7-minute movie One Fine Day, an exhilarating film guaranteed to give you goose bumps and pride in your foremothers and yourself, and Chisolm ‘72: Unbought and Unbossed. Brooklyn-based Congresswoman Shirley Chisholm made history when she vied for the presidency in 1972. In fact, Congresswoman Chisholm has represented a series of firsts: She was the first African-American woman elected to Congress and the first black person and woman to run a serious, high-profile campaign in the U.S. presidential primary. Her inspiring journey is the subject of this documentary.

A century ago women in the United States did not have the vote. Women were automatically denied custody of their children in divorce actions. Spousal rape was a commonality, not a crime. “Barefoot and pregnant” was not a backwater catchphrase but a condition mandated by poverty and ignorance. Single women (yes, that would include lesbians in great numbers) had three options: drudgery in factories, drudgery in their married relatives homes, and prostitution. Our s/heroes worked to change these things.

We don’t have a woman president yet, but we are all pretty sure that we will someday. A short fifty years ago it never occurred to anyone that there was anything wrong in saying that “all little American boys can grow up to be President.” People would brag about it in front of their little girls, never thinking how it might make them feel; but now everyone knows that we can all grow up to be president, it’ll just be a lot harder for a little girl. She’ll have to do everything a little boy does, twice as well. No problem, Ginger Rogers did everything Fred Astaire did, backwards and in high heels. And our s/heroes worked to change these attitudes.

Fifty years ago women could not dream of attending West Point or any other of the Service academies. The woman who would become the first to sit on the Supreme Court graduated second in her class at Stanford Law School and was offered nothing but secretarial positions at the prestigious law firms which hired her classmates as attorneys. A sure compliment fifty years ago was to tell a woman that she thought like a man, threw like a man, played cards like a man, ran, did math, drank beer, belched, played music, anything esteemed by the male culture, like a man.

The work begun by the women’s rights movement in the 1800’s and continued by the suffragists in the early 1900’s was reinforced and continued by the feminists of the 1970’s and 80’s. These were the women who fought for our freedom, citizenship, dignity and opportunity. These are my s/heroes, and we will meet many of them in the videos we’ll be showing on August 27. Hope to see you there.

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Saint Sybil

Dear St. Sybil,

What’s this about Women’s History Month? Why isn’t there a Men’s history month as well? Let’s be fair here!

Heatedly,
Jerry Atrick

Dear Jerry,

You will be pleased to hear that Congress has finally relented and has declared July as Men’s History Month. To those who care and take note of these things, July is a 31-day month — three days more than Black History Month! Go Men! — and it is the month before — i.e., “ahead of” — Women’s History Month. Go Men!

July was chosen for Men’s History Month because — er — no reason really, but possibly something about the Fourth of July (fireworks as ejaculation metaphor) or even July 14, Bastille Day, - but probably not, too reminiscent of Madame LaFarge and Lorena … oooh, never mind.

Anyway, Hallmark has been contacted with the hope that they will make a series of Men’s History Month” cards, which will help the rest of us in understanding just what it is about. Hallmark is of course looking to sports, football, baseball, men’s basketball, golf — although Tiger Woods is rumored to have declined in solidarity with Michelle Wie.

It is expected that Men’s History Month will celebrate those few men who, against all odds, have struggled to overcome Affirmative Action and have been able to rise to CEO, CFO, President, Vice President, Congressman, Senator, Governor, Mayor, Judge, Quarterback, and Racetrack Tout. “Affirmative Action” will be the whipping boy of the month, although sophisticates will strive to be sure that women think that Affirmative Actioin refers to giving an unfair advantage to racial minorities and that racial minorities are sure that Affirmative Action refers to giving women the unfair advantage.

The motto for Men’s History Month will be “Since we can’t have babies, we get to have everything else.”

So here’s your Men’s History Month, Jerry.

Lovingly,
Sybil

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Lost & Found

Have you lost something? Someone left a couple of chairs at our Pride picnic, and after the Spring Retreat we found a cooler and a blanket that had not made it home with their owners. Call Herland at 521-9696 and identify the items, leave your name and phone numbers, and we will see about getting them back to you, or scheduling a pick-up time for you.

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Canada Approves Same-Sex Marriage

Canada’s Parliament approved legislation to allow same sex-marriages across the country, despite fierce opposition from conservative politicians and religious groups. Legislators voted by 158-133 to support the bill, which makes Canada only the fourth country in the world after Belgium and the Netherlands to permit gay marriages.

Most Canadian provinces already allow same-sex marriages, and Canada has become a popular destination for gay and lesbian couples from countries where these unions are banned.

The minority Liberal government said it had to draw up the legislation after courts in eight of the country’s 10 provinces ruled that a ban on same-sex marriages was unconstitutional because it violated Canada’s Charter of Rights and Freedoms.

Canada’s relaxed stance on gay marriage, and on other social issues, stands in contrast to that of the United States, where President George W. Bush wants Congress to back a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriages.

“We are a nation of minorities and in a nation of minorities, it is important that you don’t cherry pick rights. A right is a right and that is what this vote tonight is all about,” Canadian Prime Minister Paul Martin said shortly before the vote.

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Herland’s 20th Anniversary Retreat

Save the Date!

October 28-30, 2005
Lake Eufaula State Park

Mark your calendars now for the last weekend in October and join us as we celebrate 20 years of Herland Retreats. Plans are being made for a grand celebration as we re-create some of the most fun activities from past retreats. And, our favorite entertainers are being contacted to play at the Saturday evening concert. Expect the best!

So, to get you in the spirit, here are a few Herland Retreat trivia questions:

  • Where was the first Herland Retreat held? (This one’s easy if you read your last newsletter.)
  • Where was a lavendar bra run up the flagpole?
  • At which retreat was there a 4:30 virgin?
  • At which retreat were dyke eroticakes served for breakfast?
  • Who were the performers the last time a retreat was held at Sequoyah State Park? Hint: It was in Fall 1988.
  • Where did Herland have its first 4-day retreat?
  • Which retreat featured tie-dyeing and a kazoo band?
  • Which retreat boasted the highest attendance at 150 womyn?
  • Which retreat featured a dog show/costume contest?
  • Which entertainer has performed at the most Herland retreats?

Answers will be in next month’s Voice!

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