Herland Spring Retreat

May 14-16, 2004

Retreat to Roman Nose State Park May 14 - 16, surrender your worries and cares and give up your responsibilities for one weekend.

The retreat features workshops, recreation, entertainment, a potluck dinner and a Saturday evening concert in a women-identified and supportive atmosphere. While we have lots of activities, which are listed below, many people come to the retreats and park themselves under a tree with a good book all day; or go off hiking on their own - there is no need or pressure to do anything you don’t want to. All women and girl-children are welcome. No boys over 10, please.

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Get Lucky in OKC with Melissa Etheridge

Have you heard? Melissa Etheridge is coming to the Bricktown Events Center on Wednesday, May 19, 2004 at 8:00 p.m. To celebrate, Herland is having a special Supper Club before the concert at 6:00 p.m. On May 19 at the Bricktown Brewery, 1 North Oklahoma Ave.

Melissa’s new CD, Lucky, contains a perfect mix of ballads, rock, and raw passion that is sure to make her Get Lucky Tonight Tour one of her best. So buy your concert tickets and plan to join other Melissa fans for an evening of pizza and great music. Contact Joann at jodebug@yahoo.com or Herland at (405) 521- 9696 for more information and to add your head count to the Supper Club list.

Get Lucky Tonight Tour tickets for reserved seating are available at Homeland stores or www.tickets.com for $50 and $75. Fan club reserved seating, $173 for 2 tickets may be purchased through www.melissaetheridge.com/concerts/index.shtml or the M.E.I.N. Hotline at 415-575- 6655 (M-F 10 a.m. - 5:30 p.m. PT.) Check out the Ticket Program FAQ at www.melissaetheridge.com/concerts/faq.shtml for complete information on fan club tickets.

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Have You Heard The Mermaids Singing?

This month’s video night offering is I’ve Heard the Mermaids Singing, a Canadian film from 1987 directed by Patricia Rozema. In T.S. Eliot’s poem The Love-Song of J. Alfred Prufrock, he writes “I have heard the mermaids singing, each to each. I do not think that they will sing to me.” Eliot is right, they won’t sing to him, but they will sing to us.

Set for the most part in an art gallery in Toronto, we will watch three characters create and release tensions in debut performances. This is an independent effort with a film-noir feel.

Join us at Herland, May 29th at 7:00 PM. The popcorn is free and the soft drinks and bottled water are available for a Herland donation.

If the DVD or tape is closed-captioned, captioning will be available.

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Tracy Grammer Can Flat-Out Sing

By Jill Garner

The first weekend in April, I ventured to The Blue Door to hear Tracy Grammer and was blessed enough to be at one of the best shows I’ve ever seen there. For one, Tracy Grammer can flat-out sing. I heard her the summer before at the Woody Guthrie Festival in Okemah and was wowed, but to get to hear her in the intimate atmosphere of the Blue Door was….., well, it was heaven. What a beautiful voice, and she’s a great instrumentalist as well, playing the guitar, fiddle and mandolin. Jim Henry, who plays a plethora of instruments, sings wonderfully as well, and also records on the same label, Signature Sounds, accompanied her.

Dave Carter, Grammer’s partner in music and life, died two years ago way too young. He was an immensely talented musician and writer, and many predicted he and Grammer were poised to be rising stars. Grammer is a talented singer and great musician in her own right, and Carter always said he wanted Grammer to be the one to sing all his songs.

She’s committed herself to keeping Dave’s songs alive, and I’m glad she is because his musical mind was so brilliant and mystical. Losing Dave Carter reminds me of how I felt when I heard Jim Henson died. They’ll never be any more Muppets created by Henson’s genius, and there will never be any more songs written by Carter. Fortunately, Grammer feels that Carter’s music is too good not to be shared, and there’s no one better to do it. Carter was a master of poetry and rhyme, and combined the common with the fantastical, the love struck with the heartbroke, and the old with the new. So many of his songs sound like timeless, traditional songs, while others are very modern, and then some, like Don’t Tread on Me, are Carter being downright silly.

Carter was raised in Oklahoma and Texas, and many of his songs evoke the imagery of the open plains with mystical references and visions. He studied a huge range of things in his life including classical piano, mathematics, computer programming, philosophy, transpersonal psychology, various martial arts, all kinds of religions and spiritual paths, and so many of these experiences come out in his songs. A lot of his songs came to him in dreams as well. With lyrics like, “He worked the midnight diners, washed the weary dishes, Street poets and vision miners, starry-eyed ambitious, Blew like pilgrim leaves through the sad café, The bards and climbers tradin dreams and wishes” from The Power and the Glory evoke a colorful cast of characters, and capture the loneliness of drifters and dreamers. From 236-6132, “I am not looking for no champion of my freedom, I am anything but anybody’s foundling, Sometimes I feel like I am wandering, an old balloon on broken string, A buzzardling, A vulture beating creaky wings, while angry storms go gathering around me”, the pain and futility of an indifferent love is so eloquently captured.

Carter and Grammer have three CDs. When I Go, originally released in 1998 and recently rereleased on Signature Sounds; Tanglewood Tree; and Drum Hat and Buddha.

Please check out their music. You can find it all on the internet at http://daveandtracy.globalhosting.com/index.php, as well as other sites such as www.amazon.com, and sometimes you can find their stuff at Borders.

Carter’s words are brilliant, and Tracy’s singing and musical ability is something you shouldn’t miss. As Carter once said, “If I can bring the magic of the deep unconscious into the all-too-predictable realm of the daily grind, well that’s like bringing water into the desert. I need this to live fully; I suspect we all do.” Exactly.

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Featured Events

Herland Supper Club
Herland Supper Club will meet at 5 pm on Saturday, May 8th, at Zio?s (Italian) in Bricktown. Following dinner, we will travel to the Farmer?s Market at 311 S. Klein for the annual May Music Fest hosted by RAIN and CarePoint. This event benefits people living with HIV/AIDS across the Western region of Oklahoma. Wendy Woo, Shelly Phelps, and Pinkie and the Snakeshakers are the featured artists.

Native American Women
OKC Two-Spirit Society is having meetings for lesbian and bi-sexual women of Native American descent. Please call the OKC Two-Spirit Hotline number at (405) 317-7283 for information.

Womyn of Color
Womyn of Color Meeting will be on May 16th at 3pm, 2135 NW 39th Street. The business part of the meeting will be from 3pm to 4pm. Then please stay and enjoy our movie Trembling Before G-d, an unprecedented feature documentary that shatters assumptions about faith, sexuality, and religious fundamentalism.
Built around intimately told personal stories of Hasidic and Orthodox Jews who are gay or lesbian, the film portrays a group of people who face a profound dilemma religious identity and tradition in the world. Bring your favorite snack and enjoy a great movie and stimulating conversations. You may contact Jacqueline Gatewood at JacquelineG2003@aol.com for any additional information. Everyone is Welcome.
(Due to the 2nd Sunday of May being Mother’s Day, Womyn of Color will be meeting on the 3rd Sunday in May; but will resume
our regular meeting time of 2nd Sunday of every month starting in June)
Womyn of Color group meets the 2nd Sunday of each month-except May?s meeting is the 16th. Please email womynofcolor@gay.com or call (405) 842-3464 or (405) 947-7691 for more information.

Herland Work Day
On Saturday June 12th from 1 to 5 pm, Herland needs volunteers to help prepare for our annual Pride Picnic in the back yard. Tasks include cleaning, painting and repairs and general yard work outside. All help is greatly appreciated.

Herland Pride Picnic
On Saturday June 26th, Herland will be hosting our annual Pride Picnic in the back yard. Be sure to mark your calendars for an afternoon of food, live
music and fun.

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